RELATIONSHIPS

This post may seem like Im man bashing.....becuz I am. This is for the fellas who are in a relationship and dont know how to act.

OK LISTEN/READ...whatever....just make sure u thoroughly understand what it is that I am sayin at this very moment. FELLAS when you are in the wrong and ur lady calls you out on it....PLEASE and I do say PLEASE do not try and put all of the blame on them. If u such a man own up to what it is that u did...dont wait until u've been called out to bring forth issues u have with your girl.....if it was such a problem u should have already brought it to her attention. The whole reverse psychology thing is gettin old and it dont work on me so Im glad my BF knows lol. Another issue....if u busy....working or already had prior plans, DO NOT get mad when ur girl says she is going out with her friends, YOU ARE BUSY!! If you want to go out and have a good time with your girl MAKE time for her. Stop putting her second to everything and everyone, especially if you know you have a ride or die chick. The whole "oh I have to work'...or "oh im tired" only works for a lil while. Now don't twist my words...if u got a job im glad u out there making money and doin what u gotta do to stay alive, but would it hurt for you to take time off every ONCE in awhile....NO oh ok, so work that out cuz if you dont make time for her...Im pretty sure, someone else will.

Another thing, what's done in the dark, comes to the light. I can't stress this enough. NO ONE is smart enough to creep forever, eventually you will get caught. You can't have your cake and eat it too...and if you do I hope u get diabetes from tryin to be so greedy. If you unhappy with someone stop stringing them along, making them think they are the best thing that has ever happened to you, and you have 5 other best things chillin on the side...its not a good look and it makes u look dumb in the end. STOP throwing around the L word, if you really don't mean it. This is how u get stalkers....I know yall seen It's A Thin Line Between Love and Hate......stuff like this really happens. You have all of your life to love...don't just say it because u feel obligated, u have to feel love in your heart....GET IT TOGETHER....geesh. LOVING someone and being IN LOVE are two different things...where do your feelings fall???

I have another one for yall, if you think your significant other doesn't pick up on the little things, then some of yall must really be as dumb as you look. If your girl is used to you spending the night often, or texting and calling on a regular even when you busy....and then suddenly those things change, or stop....this is where u have messed up. A change in these activities will raise all kinds of questions, and from this point on it will make ur significant other question your motives behind every lil move you make. So if you don't want that beef, make sure you are doing whatever it is that you know makes ur significant other happy. Its not that hard fellas....it really isn't. IF at this point you are reading this and it feels like Im talking about you....9 times out of 10 I probably am. Some of yall have the mentality..."oh ima burn her before she burns me" and if this is the case, u must really be miserable with your life, u must be insecure and someone has probably done you wrong in the past. If so, this is when u re-evaluate yourself, be by yourself and take time to get your life together instead of jumping into another relationship......LEARN TO BE BY YOURSELF. I guarantee this will make you a stronger person for yourself and for anyone you come across in life.

Well with that said, Im done venting...for right now.

-Take time to get to know YOU
[Live.Laugh.Love]♥

IDK

So im home on Xmas break and I decided to start blogging. This year has been a year of random-ocity(lol) but seriously this year has been that start and end of friendships, the beginnin and ending of lives and just overall....LIFE. I can honestly say that I have been BLESSED to be surrounded by positive, beautiful people, because when you surround yourself with those two combinations, your outcomes will be beautiful, positive and blessed. I am the HEAD and NOT the tail, i am a LEADER not a follower and I know that GOD has something great in store for me and those I love. I am a tru believer in the concept that EVERYTHING happens for a reason, and it is not in anyones place to question that, so just roll with the punches. Ummm lets see...what else is on my mind.....hmmm, OK i got it....time for a lil venting. I am so over people who always have something to say about everyone else and their issues, but yet their life is just as messed up as the people they feel the need to critique....PLEASE make sure that u have yourr life in order before u start to talk about or even look down on those who have their own problems.

Tis the season for dudes to be random. Here is a lil pointer for some of the fellas out there....and if ur a female doin some of the same things then this is for you too. THINK and I do mean really THINK about some of the things you say and do before you do them. If your significant other comes across a text/myspace/ fb comment that u have directed towards someone callin them sexy, beautiful or sayin im tryna bun.....WTH, pull it together. Im just sayin that the internet/phone tells all. If u wanna comtinue doin you without gettin caught, cover ur tracks....or if u aint smart enough to do that...then maybe u shouldnt even try to creep.

Anyways, that was my random-ocity for today.

Everyone please continue to be Blessed and remember [Live.Laugh.LOVE]